Stewarding Your Story

When I was single I made my life harder, but to be honest I didn’t know it. So I share with you today 5 ways I made my singleness harder so you can learn from my mistakes, steal some new thoughts, and make your singleness easier.

As a single Christian woman it might be hard to believe that marriage could actually be for you. It might be because people ask you if you are called to singleness, which makes you doubt. Or with each birthday it is harder to believe it will happen. Or every friend is getting married and you don’t even have a potential guy in sight, so it seems impossible. Whatever has gotten you to this point, believing you will get married is hard. You don’t want to waste your time believing something that just isn’t true. So you go into protection mode and stop believing that marriage will happen for you. Check out this post to see what happens when you choose to believe you will get married someday.

When you have a crush you are committed to thinking amazing thoughts about them. Your brain likes that because that dopamine hit comes pretty easily. So often this affects your dating life because a fake person can’t compete with a real live person. This blog shares some great questions to ask yourself, and some new ways to think about letting him go.

I often get questions about how to have a successful dating experience, what to look for during the dating process, or even how to figure out if he is the one. So I thought it might be helpful to work backwards from marriage to meeting and see what we can learn about each step of the way. You will want to read this because I offer you some great thoughts to think or even some great things to think about. I remind you the four possible outcomes in dating and some ways you might meet new guys.

If you want to know what thriving single women do, read this blog. It will give you the 7 characteristics that I see in my clients when they move out of surviving and start really thriving.

Once you realize that you do really want to get married, you start thinking about the actions that you should start taking. So, I give you some actions, but I also share different things to think to keep you open to what this process can teach you.